San Bernardino County • Jail Wedding Services

Jail Wedding at High Desert Detention Center

We coordinate the entire jail wedding process at High Desert Detention Center — from the initial marriage request and notary visit to the ceremony and marriage license filing.

Located in Adelanto in the High Desert region, this facility requires extra travel planning but follows the same marriage process as other SB County jails.

9438 Commerce Way, Adelanto, CA 92301 • (760) 530-9300

Facility Details

What to Expect at High Desert Detention Center

Every facility handles inmate marriages differently. Here's what you need to know about getting married at High Desert Detention Center in Adelanto.

Approval process: Marriage request submitted through the San Bernardino County Sheriff’s Department. The remote location can sometimes add processing time — allow 2 to 5 weeks.
Ceremony setting: Ceremonies take place during regular visiting hours in the visiting area. No special ceremony accommodations are provided.
Guest policy: One witness is required with valid government-issued photo ID. Guest counts beyond the couple and officiant are generally not permitted.
Visiting hours: Check the San Bernardino County Sheriff’s website for current schedules. Hours vary by unit.
Items allowed: No items may be exchanged during the ceremony, including rings. No electronics, cameras, or recording devices.
Good to know: High Desert Detention Center is a San Bernardino County Sheriff’s facility — not to be confused with the nearby ICE processing center. The Adelanto location is approximately 85 miles from downtown LA; plan your drive carefully.

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Getting There & Check‑In

Visiting High Desert Detention Center for a Wedding

High Desert Detention Center is in Adelanto, deep in the High Desert north of San Bernardino. This is the most remote facility in SB County — plan your trip carefully.

Directions & Parking

  • Address: 9438 Commerce Way, Adelanto, CA 92301 — off US-395 in the Victor Valley area.
  • From LA: Take I-15 North through the Cajon Pass. Exit at US-395 North toward Adelanto. Turn left on Air Expressway, then right on Commerce Way. Allow 90 minutes to 2 hours from downtown LA without traffic.
  • Parking: Free visitor parking on-site. The lot rarely fills up.
  • Rideshare: Rideshare availability in Adelanto is limited. We strongly recommend driving yourself or arranging transportation in advance.

What to Know Before Check‑In

  • Scheduling: Visits must be scheduled in advance through the San Bernardino County Sheriff’s visitor system.
  • Visiting hours: Vary by housing unit. Confirm your specific schedule before making the drive.
  • Bring only: Valid government-issued photo ID and your car key. Everything else stays in your vehicle.
  • Leave in your car: Cell phones, purses, bags, cameras, food, and all electronics.
  • Weather: The High Desert is extremely hot in summer (110°F+) and cold in winter. Dress for the weather — you may wait outside during processing.
  • Gas up before you go: Fill your tank before leaving the I-15. Gas stations are sparse near the facility.

What the Ceremony Is Like

Your Wedding at High Desert Detention Center

Here's what to expect on ceremony day so there are no surprises.

The Visiting Room

  • Ceremonies take place in the regular visiting area — there is no private chapel or ceremony room.
  • Visit times are managed by the facility and may be shorter than at larger SB County jails. Our officiant keeps the ceremony clear and meaningful.
  • The visiting format depends on the inmate’s housing assignment and classification.
  • Guest counts are strictly limited. Typically only the spouse, one witness, and the officiant are permitted.

Plan Your Day

  • Total time on-site: Plan for 2 to 3 hours at the facility itself. Add 3 to 4 hours of round-trip driving from LA.
  • No items exchanged: Rings, gifts, documents, or any physical items cannot be passed to the inmate during the visit.
  • No photography: No cameras, phones, or recording devices are allowed inside.
  • Dress code: Dress modestly. Avoid solid blue or orange clothing. No revealing clothing, open-toed shoes, or offensive imagery.
  • Not the ICE facility: There is a separate ICE processing center in Adelanto. Make sure you navigate to 9438 Commerce Way — the San Bernardino County Sheriff’s facility.

Common Questions

Jail Wedding FAQ — High Desert Detention Center

How long does a wedding at High Desert take to arrange?

The full process typically takes 2 to 5 weeks from the initial marriage request to the ceremony. The remote location and smaller staff can sometimes extend timelines.

What if the inmate gets transferred to another SB County facility?

We serve all San Bernardino County detention facilities. If your partner is moved to West Valley, Glen Helen, or Central Detention, we adjust and coordinate with the new location.

Is this the ICE detention center in Adelanto?

No. High Desert Detention Center is operated by the San Bernardino County Sheriff’s Department. The ICE processing center is a separate facility nearby. We can advise on which facility your partner is housed in.

Can I bring a ring to the ceremony?

No. The facility does not allow any items to be exchanged during the ceremony, including rings.

What ID does the inmate need?

Valid, unexpired government-issued photo ID is preferred. If the inmate does not have one, contact us — we have solutions.

How much does a jail wedding at High Desert cost?

Every case is different. We provide a personalized quote after learning about your situation. No hidden mileage, after-hours, or weekend surcharges — even for the drive to Adelanto.


Contact & Scheduling

Ready to Get Started?

Book a consultation and we'll walk you through the full process for getting married at High Desert Detention Center in Adelanto.

Next Steps

  • Book online or call/text to discuss your situation.
  • We'll provide a personalized quote — no hidden fees.
  • We handle the paperwork, facility coordination, and ceremony.

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